Growing into independence is hard. When you relied on people growing up. Then boom you are now in charge of your life and you have to keep up with everything.
Some people don’t do to well trying to do for them selves. A lot of people would rather live of someone.
Once you make money and get use to being able to get the things you and desire… you continue to keep work and money at hand. Because for me asking for help is hard. And wanting others money is not a passion lol I love control over my own